I’m a 30-year-old girl in a long-lasting polyamorous relationship by having a stellar man. Our relationship started as exceedingly Dom/sub, beside me being the sub. My boyfriend and I also began super casually but quickly became partners that are serious. Now, six years later on, we find having kinky intercourse with him challenging. We now have a really deep, relationship, so my feelings get harmed as soon as we participate in bondage and kink play. This is certainly specially problematic because we still enjoy BDSM with folks I’m maybe perhaps maybe not dating. Essentially, if I’m maybe not in deep love with somebody, it does not harm my emotions whenever I am beaten by them and humiliate me personally. My boyfriend seems slighted, but i simply don’t know very well what to accomplish. Each time we perform rough—the way that is same had played for years—my feelings get hurt. Continue reading →